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Whatever qualities you want your future spouse to have should also be the qualities you see in yourself when you look in the mirror.

A must-read for all couples - especially men. This book gives practical tips on how to avoid temptation from the start itself.

Book description:

 

Plant Hedges

With the divorce rate steadily climbing and infidelity creepinginto even the happiest marriages, in a society that trivializesadultery and its devastating effects, with temptation andopportunity coming at you from all directions-how can you keepyour marriage from becoming a statistic?

The advice from best-selling author Jerry B. Jenkins is this:plant preventative hedges around your marriage. These hedges arepractical ways to avoid compromising situations and givingtemptation a foothold in your life.

Jenkins’s real-life stories of how temptation can slip inundetected and, in a dizzying whirl of deception and betrayal,cause a marriage to crumble are a wake-up call for all marriedcouples. He openly shares insights from his own marriage as well asthe hedges he has been using for years.

In this newly revised and updated edition with a DVD messagefrom the author and a new study guide for group and personal use,Hedges is more helpful than ever.

A Review:

Here are the authors “hedges” 

1. Not to dine or travel with a woman alone unless an unavoidable complication makes this impractical, and then to tell his wife first 
2. To only ever hug another woman in front of others 
3. To never compliment another woman on her looks, only her clothes 
4. To avoid any kind of flirting except with his wife and to engage in as much flirtation as possible with his wife. 
5. To remind his wife often of his wedding vows orally and in writing 
6. To get home early and spend time with the children every day before bed 
7. To share his story often ”

There are still more practical tips you can find in the book that will help you keep away from temptation. So, I highly recommend it for all couples!

Anybody can say they love Jesus, or that they’re a Christian. But how do you know, when you’re falling in love with someone, whether they are the real deal? The Bible doesn’t mention the kind of dating relationships we see today; in fact, the only romantic relationships portrayed are either marriage relationships or adulterous relationships. What this means is that a Christian boyfriend should be, first and foremost, a man you plan to marry or at least someone who would make a good Christian husband. A Christian woman should be looking for someone who is serious about God and serious about his relationship with her. A Christian boyfriend isn’t dating just for fun; he has marriage in mind.”

Read simplyheavensfood’s wise and splendid answer fully — it can help you even if you don’t believe in a God but are seeking someone worthy of marriage.